Scat – Sex involving fecal matter (that’s plain old shit in basic terms). Poz – Short for positive with respect to HIV status. Essentially, this means having sex while high on drugs, sometimes referred to as chemsex. They’d rather go straight to bed for a steamy sessions than take you out for a candlelit dinner. Guys looking for NSA or ‘NSA fun’ are looking for a simple hook-up that is unlikely to result in a second date. Non-scene – Non-scene guys avoid gay bars and clubs and tend to hang out in more ‘straight-oriented’ places. Some variations include a + at the end to encompass people who don’t identify as one of the above but are still queer or non-straight in some way.
LGBTQIA – An umbrella term used for people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, intersex or asexual.
Friends who aren’t in a relationship but like to hook up for sex from time to time. If you’re into FF, you can specify whether you’re passive or active on your PlanetRomeo profile.įWB – Friends with benefits. If a guy is DTF, he’s looking for a hook-up.įF – Fist fucking or fisting. Dom guys are typically tops (but not always), and tend to like playing with more submissive guys.ĭTF – Down to fuck. If a guy is on the DL, it means he isn’t out yet and needs to be discreet.ĭom – Dominant.
While cross-dressers normally identify as men, and will only cross-dress some of the time, trans women identify as women and live their lives as such.ĬF/Chem friendly – Not opposed to, neutral about, or actively-interested in the (usually mutual) use of illicit substances as an accompaniment or enhancement during sexual activity.ĭL – Down low. But remember that there’s a big difference between cross-dressing and being transgender. Normally used by guys who enjoy wearing dresses, stockings, wigs, make-up and underwear designed for women. This can include various activities, from squeezing and twisting using your hands or using toys that do it for you.ĬD – Cross-dressing. If you’re concerned about HIV, you can find your nearest test center here.īDSM – A term that encompasses bondage, dominance, discipline, submission, sadism and masochism. This can include all kinds of things, but most commonly involves tying up, blindfolding or inflicting pain.ĬBT – Cock and ball torture. This could be anything from anal sex to playing with toys.īB – Bareback sex, or anal sex without a condom. If a guy can accom, you can hook up at his place, if he can’t, you’ll have to invite him to yours.ĪP – Ass play. The term is thought to have originated in the US in the 1970s, and since then, April 20th (or 4/20 if you’re American) has become a counterculture holiday where people gather to smoke and celebrate weed.Īccom – Accommodate. For example, what exactly is WS? And what does it mean if a guy is into FF? So we decided to round up some of the more common terms along with their definitions so you never need to be confused again…Ĥ20 friendly – If a guy mentions 420, it means he likes to smoke marijuana. Sometimes guys get in touch with us to ask what some of the acronyms on our PlanetRomeo profiles mean. These days, unless you know your terminology, it can be hard to work out exactly what a guy is into and just what he’s looking for. Meeting guys, arranging dates and swapping pics can all be done more quickly and simply than ever before, and yet sometimes just chatting to a guy can feel super confusing. In the age of online dating, everything is supposed to be easy.